Showing posts with label turning 25. Show all posts
Showing posts with label turning 25. Show all posts

Thursday, October 2, 2008

QLC: Everyone's going through it!



QLC stands for Quarter Life Crisis and I'm currently in it (I think). Marian, my best bud in the office, and I were just discussing how she's been having the blues lately. We both don't know what we want in our career and our relationships, and we are simply not content with what's in front of us.

She sent me an email describing the symptoms (from Wikipedia I think) :

  • feeling "not good enough" because one can't find a job that is at one's academic/intellectual level
  • frustration with relationships, the working world, and finding a suitable job or career
    confusion of identity
  • insecurity regarding the near future
  • insecurity concerning long-term plans, life goals
  • insecurity regarding present accomplishments
  • re-evaluation of close interpersonal relationships
  • disappointment with one's job
  • nostalgia for university, college, high school or elementary school life
  • tendency to hold stronger opinions
  • boredom with social interactions
  • loss of closeness to high school and college friends
  • financially-rooted stress (overwhelming college loans, unanticipatedly high cost of living, etc.)
  • loneliness
  • desire to have children
  • a sense that everyone is, somehow, doing better than you

Bathroom Conversions ensued...

Marian: You know Jules, I met this PR Manager in a hotel last Tuesday night. She added me in FB and I looked at her blog and she stated she's going through symptoms of QLC as well!

Jules: See! It's not only us, we're sane...I'm relieved!

Marian: I know. It happens to all of us I guess.

Jules: Uh-huh.

Marian (in a singsong voice): But I found a solution.
His name is J-E-S-U-S! :)

Saturday, September 6, 2008

30 things to try before we turn 30

I recently had my hair done at Jean Yip, and the stylist made for me 2 hairstyles in one:
Alaveeeeet hehhehehe!

But anyway, as I was having my haircut last night, I came upon this list from Cleo Mag, and I find this funny and interesting...I'm turning 25 (not 30 ok) waaaaah I'm getting old sheessh!

30 things to try before we turn 30:

1.Channel an old school movie and throw a drink in a man's face.

- Hmmmm...what a brilliant idea...I'll do this soon hahahha.

2.Delete the words “like, random and totally” from your vocab.

-I so totally will do this! ;D

3.Break someone’s heart; similarly, have your own broken. -Been there, done that!


4.Divorce toxic friends. - Meron ba??

5.Drink a champagne cocktail in a Paris bar. -Ah boss, when are we going to France?

6.Master the art of choosing the perfect wine. -Grapes na lang, can?

7.Confess that (present or past) crush on your best male friend. -Done this a long time ago, like when I was um, 8?

8.Drive a wickedly cool car, even if you have to rent it. -Pink convertible for the princess please!



9.Use an alias for a day. -Undercover: Hot Chick... lol.

10.Visit a strip club. -For what??

11.Have a favourite book which isn’t chick-lit. - I have a lot!



12.Quit a job, without having another one to go to. -Twice, man!

13.Buy a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill and a black-lace bra.
-Sabi na I should have bought that set!

14.Learn who you can trust, who you can’t and why you shouldn’t take it personally.

-Uh-huh..:)

15.Live by yourself (for at least six months). -How about 12?

16.Travel somewhere by yourself – a foreign country, another city or just a road trip to the country. -I've been wanting to go to the Hague! Let's!


17.Forgive someone who wronged you; apologise to someone you've wronged.


- I did. Di lang halata. ;p

18.Master cooking one impressive three-course meal. -Ok ok!
19.Learn to change a tyre. -Oh, man!
20.Buy an original piece of art. -Andy Warhol, bebe!

21.Volunteer for a charity you care about. - I am (ymca)...unicef next!

22.Break-up with a man who you know is bad for you; similarly, have a fling with a man who you know is bad for you!

-no comment.

23.Dine solo in a restaurant – no phone, book or notebook allowed.
-Why not?

24.Run a marathon. -Coolness.

25.Pay off your credit card(s)/HECS debt/car loan.

Just did this last month. Whew!

26.Spend a whole pay packet on a pair of shoes.


-Jimmy Choo!

27.Have a killer joke you tell perfectly ready to use for those awkward moments.

-How bout Singapura anecdotes?

28.Try something you always said you’d never do – whether it be sky-driving or eating escargot.

-Skydiving definitely!

29.Learn how to stand up for yourself, rather than silently seething when you receive poor customer service or someone makes a snide remark.

-Righteous anger dapat!


30.Get married.*


-Oh... Will do ;)